SISTERS

I don't know who wrote this, but they spoke the truth:  

A young wife sat on a sofa on a hot humid day, drinking iced tea and visiting with her Mother.  As they talked about life, about marriage, about the responsibilities of life and the obligations of adulthood, the mother clinked the ice cubes in her glass thoughtfully and turned a clear, sober glance upon her daughter.

"Don't forget your Sisters," she advised, swirling the tea leaves to the bottom of her glass.  "They'll be more important as you get older.  No matter how much you love your husband, no matter how much you love the children you may have, you are still going to need Sisters.  Remember to go places with them now and then; do things with them.  And remember that "Sisters" also means your girlfriends, your daughters, and other women relatives too.  You'll need other women.  Women always do."

'What a funny piece of advice!' the young woman thought. 'Haven't I just gotten married?  Haven't I just joined the couple-world?  I'm now a married woman, for goodness sake!  A grownup.  Surely my husband and the family we may start will be all I need to make my life worthwhile!

But she listened to her Mother.  She kept contact with her Sisters and made more women friends each year.  As the years tumbled by, one after another, she gradually came to understand that her Mom really knew what she was talking about.  As time and nature work their changes and their mysteries upon a woman, Sisters were the mainstays of her life.

After more than 50 years of living in this world, here is what I've learned:

THIS SAYS IT ALL:  

Time passes.
Life happens.
Distance separates.
Children grow up.
Jobs come and go.
Love waxes and wanes.
Men don't call when they say
they will.
Hearts break.
Parents die.
Colleagues forget favors.
Careers end.

BUT ...

Girlfriends are there,
no matter how much time
and
how many miles are between you.
A girlfriend is never farther away
than needing her
can reach.

When you have to walk
that lonesome valley
and
you have to walk it by yourself,
your girlfriends
will be on the valley's rim,
cheering you on,
praying for you, pulling for you,
intervening on your behalf,
and waiting
with open arms at the valley's end.

Sometimes,
they will even break the rules
and
walk beside you.
Or come in and carry you out!

Girlfriends, daughters, daughter-in-laws, sisters, sisters-in-law, Mothers, aunties, nieces, cousins, and extended family, bless our lives!

The world wouldn't be the same without them, and neither would I.  When we began this adventure called womanhood, we had no idea of the incredible joys or sorrows that lay ahead.  Nor did we know how much we would need each other.

Everyday, we need each other still.

Tags: Sisters, Girlfriends